"In a few sentences, describe the most dishonest person you've ever met."
I don't know if I've ever met dishonest people. Or not very. Hola was a criminal, but to me 'dishonest' means more like 2-faced. But I think few people are self aware enough to be deliberately 2-faced. Man, I'm such a snob.
And that's actually, not exactly what I'm thinking. I mean I know a guy who's incredibly 2-faced, but what I'm thinking is he's not emotionally dishonest because he's doing exactly what he wants: playing people, then bitching/being polite to their faces then itching. Wait, this is dishonest...maybe.... Well it's dishonest to other people but it's not...internally dishonest. Maybe that's how I'm seeing dishonesty - not being true to yourself.
I don't know. There was my friend who 'only liked friends who were 100% there for her," aka were her unquestioning enslaved puppets...but I don't think she realised what she was doing, so that was not dishonest....
YEAH, that's why I don't think this guy [omission] is being dishonest - outwardly he is, but I think inwardly he's being honest in each separate moment. So when the person is there he is nice to them. When they aren't, he's a bitch. Like a dog - when he's licking his bum he's licking his bum. When he's eating he's eating.
I on the other hand often deliberately say what I think is the best thing to say in a situation - not generally lying, but sometimes repackaging things, sometimes omitting things, sometimes manufacturing interest. It's a sort of out of body/acting experience. Playing a role.
Like this. Considered words that offer a deliberate amount of my truth.
So maybe I'm the most dishonest person I've met.
I don't know if I've ever met dishonest people. Or not very. Hola was a criminal, but to me 'dishonest' means more like 2-faced. But I think few people are self aware enough to be deliberately 2-faced. Man, I'm such a snob.
And that's actually, not exactly what I'm thinking. I mean I know a guy who's incredibly 2-faced, but what I'm thinking is he's not emotionally dishonest because he's doing exactly what he wants: playing people, then bitching/being polite to their faces then itching. Wait, this is dishonest...maybe.... Well it's dishonest to other people but it's not...internally dishonest. Maybe that's how I'm seeing dishonesty - not being true to yourself.
I don't know. There was my friend who 'only liked friends who were 100% there for her," aka were her unquestioning enslaved puppets...but I don't think she realised what she was doing, so that was not dishonest....
YEAH, that's why I don't think this guy [omission] is being dishonest - outwardly he is, but I think inwardly he's being honest in each separate moment. So when the person is there he is nice to them. When they aren't, he's a bitch. Like a dog - when he's licking his bum he's licking his bum. When he's eating he's eating.
I on the other hand often deliberately say what I think is the best thing to say in a situation - not generally lying, but sometimes repackaging things, sometimes omitting things, sometimes manufacturing interest. It's a sort of out of body/acting experience. Playing a role.
Like this. Considered words that offer a deliberate amount of my truth.
So maybe I'm the most dishonest person I've met.